Friday, May 9, 2014

Old Dog Needs To Learn Some New Tricks



I am not by nature a “work out” kind of person, although I was pretty active as a child.  I hiked around the foothills with my brother and the other boys, and loved to scale the steep hillsides where the firebreaks had been cut.  And I was a bit of a monkey, always climbing high in trees or clinging to ledges.  Very much a daredevil, I was proud of the label tomboy (before it was un-PC.)  I loved active, dirty outdoor play.  I played foursquare, dodge ball (before it was banned) and jump rope at recess.  When it came time for team sports I played volleyball and basketball through eighth grade, but in high school things changed.  I spent hours by the pool, but my participation veered toward a less active role.  I moved from hours of diving (before diving boards were banned in home pools) and games of Marco Polo, to spending most of my time working on my tan with Baby Oil (before sun exposure was exposed!)

       High School brought cheerleading in to my life, but this was a mixed blessing.  I loved the cute uniforms and the school spirit part, and especially the boy’s school where I was thrilled to be chosen for the squad.   The choreography was my worst nightmare. Not having been a dance girl, it was painful to learn the moves, link them together and be in sync with the other girls.  I learned my tryout routine from a “public” school friend who had been a cheerleader for her junior high.  I thought she was so worldly
because not only had she gone to a school with only 7th and 8th graders, she had “made” cheerleader at a very big school.  I was in good hands and fortunately she was patient, because it took me days to learn a short, simple routine.  Thank God this was before cheerleaders had to do complex dance moves, and way before they had to perform like Las Vegas show girls! 

       At this stage I also had an extended flirtation with beach volleyball and surfing.  Being a teenager in Southern California during the age of Gidget and Beach Party movies, I fancied myself a surfer girl.  I tanned my skin, lightened my hair, bought a two-piece (pre-bikini kind of like a fancy bra and panties set) and a surfboard.  I could body surf so I thought it couldn’t be much harder to ride a board.  I became somewhat proficient and loved every minute of floating out in the ocean waiting for waves.  It was quiet and calming – meditative - before I knew what that word really meant.  I could catch waves, probably because I was a decent body surfer, but standing up was challenging and I never was very good at it. Most of my exercise came from hauling the board – they were heavy back then – paddling out, and retrieving it when it washed into shore.  I loved the whole warming up in the sand when you were wet, having the salt dry on your skin as the sun went down, and basically, hanging out all day with cute guys while wearing eye catching attire!

       As I admitted at the get go, I am not, and never was, someone drawn to rigorous exercise in the pursuit of a skill, a win or a fitness goal.  I’ve always been a hard worker around the house and yard with lots of DIY projects that involved hauling, digging and power tools.  This had the dual purpose of creating things I envisioned and keeping me fit.  When I was in my thirties some of the other moms took up “jogging,” and although I gave it a try, I quickly downgraded to walking.  I walked with a friend because I needed the entertainment of talking to someone to keep me from turning around and going back home.  When I was in my forties our son came to us as a baby, and I realized that I would be an “older” mother.  I had a good reason to up the ante, and started actually going to the health club that my husband (Mr. Work Out) and I had joined years before.  This is when I discovered that if I went to a group fitness class, I was more likely to exert myself.  Left to my own devices, I just wandered around the gym from area to area, never really getting any momentum.  As a matter of fact, it takes a room full of people, a closed door, music, and an instructor to get my mind engaged, and stop fantasizing about walking out.  Every once in awhile there is a change in instructors, which means learning different moves and styles. Then I have to learn some new tricks. When I first started taking classes I considered it quite an accomplishment when I mastered the “grapevine” and was going to the right or left at the same time as the rest of the class.

       Now, over the last twenty years I have been committed to my weekly classes, usually 3-4 times a week.  When I’m out of town or sick for several weeks and don’t work out, I can see what happens to my shape and my fitness.  My clothes start to get tight and my energy and endurance sag.  I’ve realized that if I stopped exercising I would lose much of my flexibility, strength, balance, and endurance – more so with each passing year.   I am lucky to have an added incentive for showing up at my regular classes - getting together with the close friends I have made at my gym.  Several years ago Pasadena Athletic Club, our original health club, closed and five or six of us made our way to a newly opened gym, Breakthru Fitness.  We were drawn to it because of the powerful combination of topnotch facilities, incredible owners, instructors and staff, a full and varied schedule of classes, and the overall friendly and personal ambiance.


       My schedule is so set that all appointments – doctors, dentists, hair cuts, plumbers and on down the line – are arranged by my workout time.  I used to be glued to classes that started at 8 or 8:30 so I could drop my son off at school and go straight to a class.  When he started to drive my schedule could change, but I still aimed for an early class, as did my friends.  We all agree that a good, enjoyable instructor is our priority and have even changed times to suit this goal.  Over the years we have “lost” several of our favorites.  We never thought anyone could beat Betsy, but when Betsy moved to Colorado, we fell in love with Erin.  When Erin moved to Minnesota, everyone felt like no one could replace her.  After a few days with substitutes in our time slot we started with Meredith.  Her music was different, “Did we like it.  Will we get a rhythm with this new girl with different moves?”  Here we are, a few years later, mourning Meredith leaving as our Monday and Wednesday cheerleader.  Because that is what she has become. We leave her class after a vigorous workout, and good stretch with an upbeat rhythm in our steps.  

       Once again we have to modify our work out with a new instructor.  As we gather after class at the coffee shop downstairs for a chat, we ponder the same questions.  “Will we like the new instructor, their music and energy?”  This is were the element of routine is so helpful.  It’s kind of automatic on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and some Tuesdays for me to plan my day around a morning workout, and at least one or two of my friends will be there, because seeing each other is a priority.  Linda has raised the bar on this commitment.  She hasn’t been taking class lately for various reasons, but she never fails to meet us after class for tea. 


       My gym may change, my instructors may change, my health may change, but I know that I can learn new tricks no matter how old I am or what modifications I have to make. I am actually much better at learning new routines than I ever was as a cheerleader, and there is great satisfaction in that.

                   
Loa's class has been a constant in keeping me strong and flexible for many years